When someone asks you for help, do you ask "why?" or "why not?"

When asked to do it a different way do you ask "why?" or why not?"

When you face a challenge, do you ask "why? or "why not?"

When things don't go your way, do you ask "why?" or "why not?"

It's a subtle shift of perspective that can make a world of difference. Don't ask "why?", ask "why not?"